More thoughts—
**Islam and Ramadan
Somewhere in the recesses of my mind, I recall being in a mosque here in the Lehigh Valley and I know that there’s a mosque across from Youngers wholesale where I buy my flowers. But beyond that, I’m embarrassed to say I really didn’t know much about Islam.
I knew even less about Ramadan.
So there we were in a Muslim country during Ramadan. What did that mean for us and what did that mean for most of the people we were in contact with?
On our very first day when we met Adnane, we were going to take a taxi to Rick’s Cafe. he advised us that the cost would be about 50 Dirhams, although the fare was only 30 Dirhams. But he said to give 50 because, “it’s Ramadan. “. Hmmm…..
As we would learn, Ramadan is a time that highlights generosity and kindness. I recall Adnane saying that the theory is that if you practice this kindness and generosity for a month, it will become a more integral part of your life and you’ll just naturally do it all the time.
I also didn’t fully understand the routine of fasting. During our first nights in Chefchaouen I heard drums banging in the wee hours, and I really was annoyed. But then we learned that this is a job that someone takes upon himself, to wake up the people who are going to prepare breakfast at 4 AM.
So the fasting day goes something like this: wake up to the banging drum at 3 AM to begin preparing breakfast, eat breakfast, which is heavy on carbs at 4 AM, then go back to sleep for as long as you possibly can during daylight hours. This means that Shop owners don’t open their shops, and even the doctor that we called when Don was sick was asleep and didn’t show up until 1 PM. Fasting —no food OR water—goes on all day long and then, depending on which town, city, or village we were in we would hear some kind of signal that fasting was over. In Fes it was a canon, And then it would be followed by the call to prayer from the local mosque. And then you would break the fast perhaps with soup and dates. Some hours later you might eat dinner say around midnight.
It was a bit disconcerting to me for Adnane to be arranging wonderful lunches for us, which he couldn’t eat!
So that was a real life experience in Ramadan. But I think the larger learning for me about Islam was its acceptance of Christianity and Judaism, and the honoring of Jesus, Abraham, and finally, Mohammed, all as prophets of God, and all with similar messages.
When I saw the crowd of 2500 people gather on Eid to pray, I was really moved, and when I further learned that crowds of up to 200,000 gather in Casablanca at the mosque on Eid, I was astounded.
I think of the many struggling faith communities that I know of, and here is just one country and one group of people, a similar mind, dedicated to peaceful wcoexistence, kindness, and generosity of spirit.
Islam has a lot to teach me.
Was the goat Shepherd content? His life’s work was that of a mason, and then he retired and got this flock of goats. He said that they were his retirement income.
This sweet auntie whose name I don’t even know, and whose daughter lives in Connecticut, gave me this knitted poncho when she knew I was cold.

People seem content. Ok, so I know we had an “on-the-surface” intro and everyone put their best foot forward, but I got the sense that our interactions were genuine. Was there striving to get ahead financially? Was the guy who collects dried bread for 40 years satisfied with his life?
It seemed that Islam and a belief that “God provides” is inherent in the lifestyle.
I’m sure there’s a flipside to all of this, and Hassan in his explanation of the various classes alluded to such. Those who might be striving and not achieving goals, may contribute to the problem of drug addiction.
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Don and I are still “coming down” from all we’ve learned and experienced. We plan to keep in touch with some of the new friends we’ve made, and who shared the last 3 1/2 weeks with us. We look forward to more trips with Overseas Adventure Travel, and next up will probably be Egypt.
Creekside Lane is becoming more of our vacation home, as we travel frequently to North Carolina and around the world!
“Marhaba” awaits you! Selfless welcome! I’ll make you tagine!!